By: Noah Ung, Staff Writer
Kissing under the mistletoe is one of the holiday season’s most playful and enduring traditions. For centuries, this seemingly random plant, with its evergreen leaves and white berries wrapped in bows, has carried the meanings of love and peace. But how did it become the staple of Christmas celebrations that it is today?
The story of mistletoe as a symbol of love begins in Norse mythology. According to Smithsonian Magazine, Loki, the god of mischief, used mistletoe in order to make a weapon that killed Balder, the son of the goddess Frigga. Afterward, Frigga and the other gods were able to resurrect Baldur. So, in celebration, Frigga declared mistletoe sacred and said that anyone standing beneath it should share a kiss to show love and forgiveness as a testament to her revived son. The Old Farmer’s Almanac adds that this myth established mistletoe as a plant tied to peace and harmony, themes that continue in today’s Christmas celebrations.
In addition to its roots in Norse mythology, mistletoe was also highly regarded by the Ancient Druids, high rankers in the ancient Celtic race. The Grunge explains that Druids considered mistletoe magical, as it stayed green even during harsh winters. They used it in rituals for protection during the winter solstice among other things as they believed it had the power to bring good fortune and ward off evil spirits. This high regard likely contributed heavily to the creation of the modern tradition.
The modern-day tradition of kissing under mistletoe became more popular in 18th-century England. Smithsonian Magazine highlights the use of “kissing balls,” where mistletoe was hung at festive gatherings. Anyone who stood underneath the plant was expected to accept a kiss. With each kiss, a berry was removed. The popularity of this tradition skyrocketed during the Victorian era, where it became a romantic holiday custom. This tradition reflected the strict social rules of the time, offering a playful excuse for flirtation during formal gatherings very similar to its purpose in today’s holidays.
The tradition of kissing under mistletoe has lost much of its original meaning but remains a charming and festive custom. Mistletoe’s journey from a sacred plant to a symbol of holiday romance reflects the way traditions evolve over time. Whether it’s a playful peck or a simple decoration, mistletoe continues to bring a sense of connection and joy to the holiday season.
